r1v3theather ([info]r1v3theather) wrote,
@ 2006-09-08 17:25:00
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whatever you want to call it, it needs to end
It has been over a year, yet the "Harassment" continues.
I HAVE filed a report with the police (Incident # 06-309298).
I HAVE deleted my old email account.
I HAVE blocked him on here. What I haven't done is change my cell number. Why the hell should I lose contact with people and put all my friends out because some guy can't leave me alone? Although it seems to be coming to that.

I am documenting all contact.
I am keeping track of when he drives around my apartment.
I am logging phone calls, that are continuing to be made at all hours of the day and night.
I am saving all voice messages left on my phone (YES there are still messages being left)
I did tell all my friends months and months ago to not say or do anything.

I want to be able to leave my house alone at night and not worry about being attacked. I want to be able to answer my phone without worrying about being "harassed." I want to not worry about my friends being threatened.

There has been NO contact on my end. As I have said continuously over the last year, I want this to end.
It is out of my hands, it is a police matter now.



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[info]etherpunk
2006-09-09 01:44 am UTC (link)
This might be useful to you in this:

http://www.privacyrights.org/fs/fs2a-cellcalls.htm#1

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[info]rodentsky
2006-09-09 01:52 am UTC (link)
ughh. i am sorry. wish i could do something for you or somehow make this creep disappear or at least leave you alone. you definitely don't deserve this shit. whenever i'm up there and you need anything from me concerning this, don't hesitate to talk to me (unfortunately i don't have my cell anymore)

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[info]qnonymous
2006-09-09 01:56 am UTC (link)
wait a second...he's leaving you voicemails?


*angryface*

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[info]ft13
2006-09-09 05:31 am UTC (link)
im sorry youre still being stalked, sweetie.

remember, im from jersey. if you need some kneecaps broken, holla!! hehe

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[info]audiblecell
2006-09-09 07:09 am UTC (link)
Why are you making a public post...making this private would not be feeding into his madness...it would be clueing us all in though...Id highly suggest you do friends only on here as well.

Suck!

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Please don't discourage her making this public, it's time.
[info]misscerridwen
2006-09-09 01:58 pm UTC (link)
You and I know that she has been as private as she could be, always taking the high road, and not doing the best she could to ignore this problem... as have we all...

However, there are people who don't know the whole story, or believe the validity of the problem.

Sometimes making something public can put peoples misconceptions to rest, or at least let those people have the entire story to make their own decision.

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Re: Please don't discourage her making this public, it's time.
[info]audiblecell
2006-09-09 07:08 pm UTC (link)
My point was that when he is able to see it it feeds him...I think that everyone knows the validity of the situation...and the fact that now, over a year later this is still going on makes it even greater a worry. Im not asking for her to supress that it's happening...not in the least...I just think that a filter might not be a bad thing.

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Re: Please don't discourage her making this public, it's time.
[info]misscerridwen
2006-09-09 08:27 pm UTC (link)
Not everyone knows.

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[info]dawnchylde
2006-09-09 02:09 pm UTC (link)
It's pretty easy to get a restraining order. I didn't know he was still stalking you. It's been a long time.

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[info]misscerridwen
2006-09-09 05:15 pm UTC (link)
I'm really proud of you for making a public post about this. It just clears the air. And, I'm even more proud of you for going to the police a few months ago. It is over time after more than a year of harrassment.

I love you, Heather.

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[info]777_ex_angel
2006-09-09 06:05 pm UTC (link)
Fuck that guy.

Well, it was nice to see you out last night and smiling.

I had no idea you were still dealing with that guy, suck.

:(

I can't think of anything to do to help you, but if I ever see you around I'll keep an eye out.

::hugs::




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[info]machine_logic
2006-09-09 10:33 pm UTC (link)
He just walked to the door of Musicwerks, looked in, then turned around and walked away, staring in the window all the while. I'm assuming he was looking for Noel.

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[info]mercuryslavejq
2006-09-10 03:01 am UTC (link)
gyah... be careful.

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[info]stormwhitewolf
2006-09-10 08:58 pm UTC (link)
Wow! I can't believe this is still going on. It is good that you are taking some legal action. Living in fear is no way to live. Hang in there. Also it was good running into you on Friday night.

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